Friday, January 6, 2012

Christmas Morning

A miracle occurred on Christmas night . . . Ben stayed in his bed, drum roll please, ALL NIGHT LONG!  That's a big deal around here.  And this is how I got him to do it.  I told him that Santa would not know that he lived here if he wasn't in his bed when he came and checked on him.  I told him that Santa doesn't check parents rooms, so if he sees no kids sleeping in their beds, he assumes they are not home.  And that did the trick my friends.  Just wish I could some how figure out how to make that work all year long.  I wish I could have seen his face when he first woke up and walked into the living room and saw what Santa left him.  Instead I saw his cute little face just moments later at my bedside exclaiming,

"I can't believe it.  Santa came!"
me: "what did he bring you?"
Ben: "an art easel."
me: "did he bring you a Buzz Lightyear like you asked?"
Ben: "let me go look."  And off he ran.
Ben: "he did! he did! And he ate all of my cookies!"
me: "did he drink the milk."
Ben: "let me go look."  And off he ran.
Ben: "he did! he did!"

Then he waited for mommy and daddy to get up and we all went and checked out what Santa brought.  James and I both were treated to shoes from Santa: I got some amazingly comfortable Ugg boots, and James got a number Jordan of course for his collection.  We helped Ben get down both his and Jackson's stockings and he enjoyed the little treasures they held; especially the Build A Bear gift certificates for both him and baby brother (for Ben to make baby brother his first stuffed animal).
We slowly opened up the rest of our presents one by one.  I'm so glad that at least for now Ben doesn't just tear into one present, shove it aside, and then look for the next one.  He opens it and then wants to open it and play with it right away, and we almost had to cox him into opening up each present afterwards.
 
 
Because we didn't have church until 12:30 (has since changed to 9am, which I prefer), we were able to really enjoy the morning.  I made a pancake breakfast- chocolate chip ones for the boys- and we enjoyed some hot coco before beginning to get ready for the rest of our day.  I loved that Christmas fell on a Sunday this year.  In our church we don't have a meeting on Christmas unless it actually falls on a Sunday , instead we have a special Christmas service either the Sunday before or after Christmas.  It was really nice to be able to go to church on actual Christmas and I felt the spirit so strongly.  My favorite moment was the concluding hymn.  It was Silent Night.  Ben had grown familiar with the song over the last month from the Huggies commercial.  He called it the sleeping baby song.  He also knew that it is about baby Jesus.  Most of Sacrament meeting Ben quietly entertains himself with his little bag we bring each week containing coloring books, a magnetic Noah's ark, snacks, etc.  But when the song began and Ben realized it was Silent Night he climbed up on his Daddy's lap and concentrated very hard to sing some of the words of the song along with James and I.  At that moment I felt very happy, very much in love with my little family, and very thankful for my Savior that was born on Christmas day so long ago!

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Christmas Eve

We had a busy and wonderful Christmas Eve.  We spent the early afternoon at the in-laws house.  It would be the first year in ten years that both James and myself (longer obviously for just James) would not be spending Christmas morning over there.  It was a big change that I'm sure we all thought about on Christmas morning, but I was excited at the thought of spending Christmas morning with just my little family.  So we spent the morning of Christmas Eve opening up the very generous presents from my in-laws to myself, James, and Ben, and also did the kid swap and gave our presents.  It was a fun time and Ben loved his new toys, books, and clothes, and one very cool Mater pillow pet from his Uncle Jay!
We continued our day at my sister and brother-in-laws house.  Where we were again blessed with more family and more generous gifts.  I think Ben enjoyed most of all holding his new baby cousin, Ashlynn.

After we left the new family we went back to my parents house for a yummy dinner and Ben found out that Santa came early and he got to open up a stocking for both him and his almost baby brother, and you guessed it, more presents!
Finally we ended our night at the beautiful Oakland Temple for a large dose of reality, reflecting on what Christmas is really all about, the birth of our Savior.
 
Once home a very excited little boy set out his overly decorated sugar cookies for Santa and made sure we poured him a glass of milk to wash it all down.  And of course mine and James' night didn't end until the stocking were stuffed and Santa's presents were under the tree!

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Parties for Hosting

James and I, mostly I, hosted our first formal holiday party.  We have always been a fan of the formal home holiday parties you see in the movies and on TV, and we finally have the space to throw one of our own.  We hope to make it an annual tradition.  This year we decided to host James' work team.  They are such good friends, and one of their favorite members, Brett, had moved back home to live with his family and telecommute to work, was in town, so it was the perfect opportunity to get everyone together.  It was very fun getting the house ready and planning the food and activities.  I was very glad when it was over but so glad that we did it.  It was great getting to meet the people that James spends his days with and some of their spouses, and to see everyone enjoy themselves.  I was extremely bummed to find out that I had been taking pictures all night with a camera that had no memory card.  But James went around and took pictures of all of the decor and food, which looked almost the same after the party as it did before because I went way overboard with the food.  And thanks to the photo booth area, we ended up with some pictures of the guests.
    

 Arlina's husband, Bob and Tristan
 James and Brett, aka "BoBo"
 The ladies of the office
 Erin
 Us
 Arlina and her husband, Bob
 Richard, aka "Savage"
Two nights later we hosted some family at the house to open presents and we got to get rid of a little bit of the major amounts of leftovers we had and enjoy the photo booth one last time!